I'm going to cause a huge ruckus with this entry. I do want to make it clear that I do not agree with the recommendations in this piece, which I copied from the Housekeeping Monthly of 13 May 1955. Read it? Nineteen fifty-five.
1 Have dinner ready. Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious meal ready, on time for his return. This is a way of letting him know that you have been thinking about him and are concerned about his needs. Most men are hungry when they come home and the prospect of a good meal (especially his favourite dish) is part of the warm welcome needed.
2 Prepare yourself. Take 15 minutes to rest so you'll be refreshed when he arrives. Touch up your make-up, put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh-looking. He has just been with a lot of work-weary people.
3 Be a little gay and a little more interesting for him. His boring day may need a lift and one of your duties is to provide it.
4 Clear away the clutter. Make one last trip through the main part of the house just before your husband arrives.
5 Gather up schoolbooks, toys, paper etc and then run a dustcloth over the tables.
6 Over the cooler months of the year you should prepare and light a fire for him to unwind by. Your husband will feel he has reached a haven of rest and order, and it will give you a lift too. After all, catering for his comfort will provide you with immense personal satisfaction.
7 Prepare the children. Take a few minutes to wash the children's hands and faces (if they are small), comb their hair and if necessary change their clothes. They are little treasures and he would like to see them playing the part. Minimise all noise. At the time of his arrival, eliminate all noise of the washer, dryer and vacuum. Try to encourage the children to be quiet.
8 Be happy to see him.
9 Greet him with a warm smile and show sincerity in your desire to please him.
10 Listen to him. You may have a dozen important things to tell him, but the moment of his arrival is not the time. Let him talk first - remember, this topics of conversation are more important than yours.
11 Make the evening his. Never complain if he comes home late, goes out to dinner or other places of entertainment without you. Instead, try to understand his world of strain and pressure and his very real need to be at home and relax.
12 Your goal: Try to make sure your home is a place of peace, order and tranquillity where your husband can renew himself in body and spirit.
13 Don't greet him with complaints and problems.
14 Don't complain if he's home late for dinner or even if he stays out all night. Count this as minor compared to what he might have gone through that day.
15 Make him comfortable. Have him lean back in a comfortable chair or have him lie down in the bedroom. Have a cool or warm drink ready for him.
16 Arrange his pillow and offer to take off his shoes. Speak in a low, soothing, and pleasant voice.
17 Don't ask him questions about his actions or question his judgment or integrity. Remember, he is the master of the house and as such will always exercise his will with fairness and truthfulness. You have no right to question him.
18 A good wife always knows her place.
7 comments:
soory but this is a fabrication that started in the early 1960's. The piece has been around a long time being sent by fax and now via the internet. Man I am actually very glad this is a work of fiction. Someone has a strange sense of humor.
Very sorry, but Good Housekeeping reprinted this in their issue of January 2009. It is an actual published article.
believe it or not this article helped me as a young married woman. i tell u it change the atmosphere in my house coz i knw my place as a wife i'm the manager of the house and my boo is my boss
My Mum was taught this in school in the 60's it was in one of her home economics books she had as a student. She had kept most of her school books......I wish I new where it was now
My wife does much of this. She is very happy to help me and we are extremely happy.
She manages the house. That is a difficult job with 5 children.
The sad part is that so many people have the "grass is greener on the other side" mentality.
If you want a good marriage, work together with your husband and make a choice that helps all. YOU have the ability to set the atmosphere for your family lives, ladies. You choose.
This is absolutely true. Our country would be a better place if this type of behavior was practiced by woman. We would have better behaved children, stronger family bonds, and stronger family valves.
On the other side of this, men need to treat their wives with respect and dignity.
My wife was raised with much of these values and still practices a large portion of them still.
Things were much different in those days.
A friend just sent this to me as an email with the title, "Are they on crack?" But I've treated my husband to most of these items with the exception of staying out all night. He'd be met at the door with my cast iron skillet! Most of these are what keep a marriage happy and healthy. 50 Fem in Ca.
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